Sometimes, they took it very seriously, or if it did happened, they dont know how to manage it in a proper way such as by having a proper talk, or face-to-face discussions; to settle the problems. Instead, they make it publics, make it as it has been overlooked by some serious ways of judgment. So, there we have; social network wars. Twitter, Facebook, or any other online medium where they have tons of friends and started to establish some harsh and sharp statuses or updates which claimed as a 'general' statement. But instead of that, those harsh words are meant to someone, of course.
I admitted that i did it too, before. But as i grew up. I realized one thing, that is by having such attitude brings nothing to yourself and to your friends. Instead, it affects your friendship. OKAY, maybe in my situation, it is arguable because i am the type that unable to 'fight' or be in a fighting mode for a long period. Less than 2 or 3 days are more than enough. :) But still, do you think by doing such things will bring any good??
Like seriously, bad, harsh and cursing words online as if its for nobody, but actually there is someone for it. Come on. this 'touching' or hurt-feeling issues are totally childish. I swear its like a disease in my circle of friends in university. For me if you feel hurt by someone's conducts, just confront him/her face-to-face. And ask why etc etc.
Another attitude that i really hate, and experienced it alot; is called 'being a fucking faker of all time': oh hell yea i hate these kind of people. They avoid you totally in all sense of activities, but when you ask them what happened?, PUFFF; "oh, nothing..im fine.. im ok lah... oh nothing wrong lah.. eh kita ok jela" ..etc etc LIKE FUCK YOU BITCH!! You acted like there was nothing wrong happened, but then you treat your friends like some disgusting shits? And faking some more. At least, let them know whats wrong, and explain everything. Peace and harmony will follows.
SIGH, really i had enough of these silly things. For me, you have problems, we settle it on time and finish it all. And thats it. :) Really fighting among friends are just a simple stuff for me. In my 21 years of existence *tiba jah*..... i had maybe only 1 fight that effects me the most; by means that it is difficult to recover. But still he/she is still my friend. Nothing is much important than a friend, yeaa, it is hard to find the right one, but once you got him/her, youre bless forever.
i love my friends and i know and im sure, they love me too; eventho if we have the biggest fight in the whole universe, you are still that person i always called friend.
